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can you get dis virgin by the penis being half way into your vagina?? and what does it mena when i felt a lower abdominal pain when i woke up the day after it happens?? :(

By February 14, 2010 - 9:14am
 
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(reply to roses)

I'm sorry....is this a real situation you are talking about? I'm very skeptical that you have a male friend who's girlfriend wants him to have a bigger penis (no mention if HE wants one or not), and he has undergone not one, but two penis reductions?

What was the exact kind/nature/name of the surgery he had on his penis when he was 14 and 16 years old? Was this medically necessary or cosmetic? This really does sound like a joke, so please forgive my skepticism, but I do not know of doctors who perform penis reductions on teenagers unless medically necessary. And now, he wants this reversed (or his girlfriend does)?

Either way, his girlfriend would need some more sexual health information, as the old adage "size does not matter" is true for the vast majority of human males, and I hope she is not causing harm in her "request". (Put the situation in reverse on the other gender; a male saying that a woman's breasts are too small, and that he wants her to have a breast augmentation in order to be satisfied sexually. Those are very hurtful and harmful words).

March 4, 2010 - 2:46pm

i have a friend who wants to have a bigger penis as her girlfriend wants it to increase by a few inches. he does not want to use take any medicines as this worries him with the future effects that it can cause..can anyone please advice me to help him on how to grow it naturally. he is 19 years old. tnx xx

March 1, 2010 - 1:43pm

no i haven't tried anything yet..but it seems to be gone now.. so i think i am ok now..i was just worrying on the day after i had it wid my boyfriend coz it hurts really bad but it seems to be going away day after day.. tnx for your help and advices it helps soo much. :)

February 18, 2010 - 5:06am

it was only a one day thing and i am not thinking of doing dat again because it gives me too much stress.. :(
i am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 18 going 19 dis year.

i am sumtyms dely on my period due to stress and not sleeping early but it can on the 21-22 last month so i am hoping that it will on roughly the same day dis month..

the pain in my lower abdominal area is on and off.. it usually triggers when i wake up in the morning..and when it is not in the lower abdominal area its somewhere near my private parts (pubic hair bit)..what does dat mean??

thanks a lot for your help.i soo appreciate everything.

February 16, 2010 - 4:50am
(reply to roses)

Roses,
If your abdomen pain persists for more than a few days, and you have tried over-the-counter remedies (gas-relief medicine, for example), and it keeps coming back, you need to call your doctor to rule out any medical condition.

Will you let us know what your doctor says?

February 16, 2010 - 2:02pm

no i am not actually releive that i am no longer a virgin in fact i am actually worried.. in case it turned out to be something else e.g. i am pregnant or sumfin..i was relieve for knowing ealier bwfore that the lower abdominal pain was sometihng else.. but i am still puzzle that could that pain also i ndicate that i am pregnant?? it was un an protected sex and i dont wether he did cum or wat.. so i am so worried and i am not at the right age and i am not ready to become a mother.. :( and how many days can you know that you are pregnant?? tnx for the help btw coz i dont reali know where to get some advice from coz i am afraid to tell anyone even my friends....

February 15, 2010 - 12:55am

omg!! so am not a virgin anymore??huhu..
but tnx for answering my question.. :)
pheww.. dat reliefs my sysytemm...coz i thought da pain was something else then..
wait, i've got another one.. can you get pregnant even if the penis is only half-way in??

February 14, 2010 - 2:21pm
(reply to roses)

Can you tell us why you are relieved that you may no longer be a virgin? There are different definitions of what a "virgin" is...what is your definition?

Women can become pregnant when they have unprotected intercourse, whether it lasts for 2 seconds or 20 minutes. There is less of a chance of pregnancy when there is no ejaculation, but there is something called "pre-ejaculatory fluid" that may contain sperm.

Does this answer your question?

February 14, 2010 - 9:14pm
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Anonymous

Thank you for your question. Your question is are you a virgin...let's really look at this.

Virginity is defined as someone who has not had sexual intercourse. Sexual intercourse is defined as a sexual union based on the penis entering the vagina. Technically by definition, you are no longer a virgin.

Let's answer your second question about the pain associated with the penis entering the vagina. The lower abdominal pain is common and will go away in a couple days. This occurrence may not happen every time you have sexual intercourse as there are many denominators that may cause the pain. For example: the size of his penis may cause discomfort, the amount of lubrication used and even the momentum of the sexual intercourse itself.

I hope this helps answer your questions. Please let me know if there is something else you may want us to answer.

February 14, 2010 - 10:51am
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