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Can't get a whole finger into my vagina

By Pink456 April 25, 2010 - 2:15pm
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I'm a 24yr old virgin. Is it normal if i cant stick a finger up my vagina. It feels so tight. D finger gets in bt hits an obstruction. Is dat my cervix? Plz help

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I started when I was 12 and i've started using this like test tube shaped bubble container. and I can only get like 3 cm of my finger in my vagina then i start to feel like the flesh inside me. I feel like i might be becoming slutty and all but yeah, I still can only put in like 3cm of the test tube too and its a bit thicker than my finger.
BTW I'm 13 now.

August 18, 2014 - 4:44am
EmpowHER Guest

Hi just want to ask if I put one finger. In virgin pushy that normal so steel virgis? Because she say yes

June 19, 2014 - 1:55am
EmpowHER Guest

i am a vary young person and a virgin and i stuck whole toothbrush up there! ohhhh and it felt amazing.....

September 5, 2011 - 10:46pm
EmpowHER Guest

i am 11...and yesterday, for the first time, i got one finger fully up there... i got scared and pulled it out..now i cant get it up there anymore |< it saddens me b/c it was a great experience! can someone help???

February 13, 2011 - 4:28pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Yes i can help by looking and putting finger in vagina

October 10, 2015 - 12:00am
ooglowingoo (reply to Anonymous)

i know this reply is really late so i want to know if its working again?basically: i started when i was 11 too. at first it was uncomfortable snd it didnt go fully up but like for you it felt good. i kept trying and i eventually got it up again so dont worry if it doesnt. you are new at it. to help it be easier if you first play with yourself; rub, stroke and pull your clit. it'll help you become wet and your finger should go up. have funn!

June 16, 2012 - 1:51pm
EmpowHER Guest

i do the same thing and it wont go up , i wish i could just stick it upp.

June 2, 2010 - 5:16pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

u better to use KY JELLY. it creats very slippy path for anything...
for more suggestions contact navyathagankor@gmail.come

January 13, 2016 - 11:49pm
Rosa Cabrera RN

Dear Pink,

Thank you for your post.

When you are a virgin, it is very common to feel a little discomfort when attempting to put a finger in your vagina. As a matter of fact, it is very normal to have a hard time inserting the whole finger at all. What you may be coming across is your Hymen-- the thin fold that completely or partially covers the vagina which may or may not be present in a virgin-- in your case, it is likely to be intact. It could also be that you're touching your vaginal wall. I don't think what you're feeling is your cervix since it is much harder to find and you would have to go purposefully deep to get to it.

If you are experimenting, don't be afraid to feel anything-- you're not hurting yourself. It's a matter of still being young and a virgin and there is nothing wrong with you. Slowly start off with one finger until you are comfortable with that, then if you're feeling up to it add a second. The more you experiment with yourself, the less uncomfortable and tight it will feel as you insert your finger(s).

Best Wishes!

April 25, 2010 - 4:44pm
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