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By Anonymous March 18, 2015 - 12:03pm
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is it normal for after sex with a condom for the base of the condom to be quite flaky? my boyfriend ejaculated outside of my vagina, i went and checked the condom for tears and there wasnt any, (filled with water no leaks) is this normal or should i be concerned, we had sex on day 10 of my cycle which are rather irregular?

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okay thanks for your advice:)

March 19, 2015 - 9:08am
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or the lubricant on the condom drying out?

March 19, 2015 - 1:07am
HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

It could be the lubricant, you're right. 

I don't think there is anything of concern - the condom didn't break and you did not have unprotected sex. 

By the way, make sure the condoms aren't expired. 


March 19, 2015 - 4:35am
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i dont think it couldve been dried sperm because i dont think it wouldve dried that fast as i did check about 10 minutes after?, sorry for the questions im just a bit anxious

March 19, 2015 - 1:00am
EmpowHER Guest

would you think i would need to get a plan b?, there was no ejaculation inside my vagina? or could it have been the moisture from my vagina had dried up?

March 19, 2015 - 12:46am
HERWriter Guide

Hi Anon

These flakes sound like dried sperm - unless it was coming from dry skin.



March 18, 2015 - 4:21pm
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