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Could i be pregnant ?

By October 26, 2011 - 3:15am
 
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i am 21 years old and i am a virgin
usually i get my period between the 19th and the 21st of each month
this month on the 13th, my bf and i made out and he entered half his penis only for about a maximum of 10minutes
he did not cum inside me at all
but i know that pre-cum may contain sperms
so might i be pregnant because i did not get my period until now
i told my bf he said it can not be possible because i couldn't be possibly ovulating on the 13th!!!

i must mention that there has been some changes in my life style recently
i graduated and searching for a job so i spend my days sitting at home
i sleep late
i wake up late
and i worry toooo much about being pregnant
im thinking of it all the time !!
please help
reply ASAP
thank you

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Anonymous

Hi MsAlwaysWorried,

Glad to hear that! Just remember, to be safe against pregnancy and STD's is best to use protection.

http://www.empowher.com/media/reference/condom-options
http://www.empowher.com/sexual-well-being/content/pulling-out-gaining-legitimacy-effective-birth-control-method

Best of luck,
Daisy

October 28, 2011 - 7:23am
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Anonymous

Hi MsAlwaysWorried,

Welcome back and glad to hear that! I won't think that at all, it's understandable you are concerned about being pregnant. If you are having a regular flow by now. Chances are you got your period. If you are spotting, meaning for just a day. Then you might want to see your doctor.

Best of luck,
Daisy

October 27, 2011 - 8:20am
(reply to Anonymous)

Thank you for replying. I really feel better after reading your words.
Anyway I just wanted to tell you that you were right, it is my period.
Again, Thank you LOADS.

October 28, 2011 - 5:49am

Hey Daisy,
When I read your comment in the morning, though I was in a hurry but I felt so much relieved.
Thank you so much. My boyfriend had been telling me this during the whole week!
Well, I have good news, I guess I got my period an hour ago. It is so light though.So, despite my happiness I wondered that could this be the spotting I read about ? Because I read that sometimes when the baby is getting implanted in the uterus it makes the same effect.
Do you think I must still take the home pregnancy test ? or just let it go and its sure my period ?

Thanks again.
P.s. Please don't think im crazy but I really don't want to have my first child in this way and certainly not now!

October 27, 2011 - 6:44am
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Anonymous

Hi MsAlwaysWorried,

Welcome to EmpowHER and thanks for your question. Absolutely, Pre-cum can contain sperm and can get you pregnant. But you also mentioned all the changes that are occurring in your life. Stress can have a big influence on your cycle being delayed. It decreases the amount of a hormone (GnRH), which causes us to not ovulate or menstruate. You might want to wait a few days and if your period doesn't come, try a home pregnancy test or see your doctor.

Best of luck,
Daisy

October 26, 2011 - 7:31am
(reply to Anonymous)

Hey Daisy,
When I read your comment in the morning, though I was in a hurry but I felt so much relieved.
Thank you so much. My boyfriend had been telling me this during the whole week!
Well, I have good news, I guess I got my period an hour ago. It is so light though.So, despite my happiness I wondered that could this be the spotting I read about ? Because I read that sometimes when the baby is getting implanted in the uterus it makes the same effect.
Do you think I must still take the home pregnancy test ? or just let it go and its sure my period ?

Thanks again.
P.s. Please don't think im crazy but I really don't want to have my first child in this way and certainly not now!

October 27, 2011 - 6:49am
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