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My boyfriend and I were messing around...I didn't have clothes on but he had boxers on. We started to have sex with his boxers on (he did enter me with his boxers on). He has reassured me that there was no "pre-cum" on him and that while he was inside me with his boxers on he wasn't close to even coming while we were messing around. When he was almost ready to come, I got off him immediately and he pulled the boxers off of him so I know that the boxers were separating the two of us. I am on the pill and I have been for about a year now but the night it happened just happened to be my sugar pills week. He keeps promising me that I couldn't get pregnant, but I guess I need a little more support. I am scared and really nervous, any advice would help. Thank you.
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Thank you Christine, I appreciate your advice! But basically, off of my story I should have nothing to worry about?
January 6, 2011 - 4:54pmThis Comment
As I said at the beginning of my reply to you, you have nothing to worry about--you should be covered. Keep taking your pills and using your backup method like you did, and you'll be fine.
January 7, 2011 - 8:41amThis Comment
Thank you very much for your help, I appreciate it!!
January 7, 2011 - 12:18pmThis Comment
Hi kca777,
January 6, 2011 - 10:02amThanks for your question and for finding EmpowHER.
Being on the pill is 99% effective at preventing pregnancy, and the withdrawal method (not ejaculating inside you) is about 70% effective. Between the two, you should be covered and will not get pregnant.
For more information, check out this chart, and click on each method to learn more: Birth Control Methods Chart. You also may want to learn more about sexual activity so you can be confident and advocate for your health without worry.
For more information, please review these articles: Am I Pregnant after Dry Sex, Making Out with Clothes On?, Outercourse, Dry Humping, Dry Sex, and The Misconceptions of Sex.
Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
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