Facebook Pixel
Q: 

Dry/Oral Sex...Pregnancy?? So WORRIED!

By February 27, 2013 - 5:28pm
 
Rate This

So on Saturday (2/23/2013) in the early morning (a little after 4am) I had unprotected oral sex with a guy and I am not on any birth control. I had my jeans on the whole time while he was naked. I was extremely wet and the wetness could even be felted on the outside of my jeans.

He ejaculated all over my face, hair, and throat. Is it possible I could still be at risk for pregnancy? Since I was wet could sperm get on my pants and “travel though”? I looked at the ovulation calculator and it said I was indeed ovulating during this time? Does that make me more susceptible?!?

He also put his hands down my pants only touching my butt before ejaculation (with pre-ejaculation on his hands?) and after oral and ejaculation touching, again only my butt. Can sperm get in that way as well? Also, I can’t remember, but I think I touched the outside of my jeans around my vagina area after he ejaculated. Does this increase the risk for pregnancy?

I then went to the bathroom a couple of hours later. Though, in between this two hour window of going to the bathroom, I kept touching my face, hair, throat.

Approximately 2 hours after he ejaculated along with using the restroom, I took out my contacts- I also changed my pants but not my underwear, could sperm have entered my vagina through any of these ways.

I then slept in the same bed as one of my friends without taking a shower and leaving the ejaculation? in my hair, face, and neck, and probably on my shirt and coat that I put back on after he ejaculated. Is she at risk for pregnancy since she slept by me and my nasty clothes? And I wore the jeans all day and night the next night with washing them. Am I still okay?

Further questions, can ejaculation be transferred/penetrated from my blue jean pants to my other pants that I changed into around 2 hours later? Can ejaculation go through my blue jeans and on to my underwear and sit there and “seep” in?

Can ejaculation stay go through my pants onto my underwear (since I was very wet) that I wore and then transfer on to my other pants that I changed into?

I cleaned and put back in the same contacts that were ejaculated on. Is this a problem as well?

I did take Next Choice 60 hours after this happened...

Add a Comment9 Comments

Thank you for your comments. The only thing I am worried about now is that I just started light bleeding yesterday- 8 days after I took Next Choice. It has gotten a little heavier, but not much. I saw that could be a side effect, but also I'm worried could it also be implantation bleeding? I am experiencing cramping, bloating, and tiredness.

March 6, 2013 - 4:30pm
(reply to privatenancy)

Also, I just had a large brown blood clot. Again, could this be implantation? Thank you so much.

March 6, 2013 - 5:27pm
EmpowHER Guest
Anonymous

Thank you for your comments. The only thing I am worried about now is that I just started light bleeding yesterday- 8 days after I took Next Choice. It has gotten a little heavier, but not much. I saw that could be a side effect, but also I'm worried could it also be implantation bleeding?

March 6, 2013 - 2:20pm

I also have a stuffy nose and sore throat. I read that those are possible signs of pregnancy as well? I'm so confused.

February 28, 2013 - 1:07am
Guide (reply to privatenancy)

Hello privatenancy,

You cannot get pregnant by having oral sex. The symptoms which you list are not signs of pregnancy.

This sexual encounter happened less than one week ago. If you had sexual intercourse (penis penetrating vagina), it would be too early to have any symptoms of early pregnancy, if you had conceived.

Do try to relax and stop worrying that you might be pregnant. Excessive stress increases your cortisol levels, which interfere with and delay the start of your period.

I hope that I have clearly reassured you that you cannot become pregnant when you have oral sex. If you continue to have concerns, schedule an appointment with your physician, who can evaluate your symptoms.

Maryann

February 28, 2013 - 5:48pm

I just started to have abdominal pains. How early do pregnancy symptoms start? I'm so worried that I am exhibiting symptoms of pregnancy.

February 27, 2013 - 11:30pm
Guide

Hello privatenancy,

The simple answer to all of your questions is no. Sperm can survive outside the body for about 20 minutes to one hour. Once semen dries, sperm is dead. Sperm cannot penetrate fabric.
You may find this slide show helpful:
http://www.empowher.com/pregnancy/content/am-i-pregnant-myths-and-facts-...
Maryann

February 27, 2013 - 6:17pm

Also, after taking Next Choice on Monday, I notice my urine turning to a darker shade of yellow and I am starting to break out. Are these pregnancy symptoms as well!?!

February 27, 2013 - 5:50pm
Guide (reply to privatenancy)

Hello privatenancy,

A darker color urine indicated that your urine is concentrated. You need to drink more fluids, like water. Though some women do notice an increase in acne or just a sudden acne break out during pregnancy, I wouldn't say it is a true sign of pregnancy.

Maryann

February 27, 2013 - 6:20pm
Image CAPTCHA
Enter the characters shown in the image.
By submitting this form, you agree to EmpowHER's terms of service and privacy policy
Add a Comment

All user-generated information on this site is the opinion of its author only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions. Members and guests are responsible for their own posts and the potential consequences of those posts detailed in our Terms of Service.

Tags:

Pregnancy

Get Email Updates

Health Newsletter

Receive the latest and greatest in women's health and wellness from EmpowHER - for free!