fear of intercourse

By dollm January 10, 2014 - 8:19am

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hello.!!..iam married and iam having fear of intercourse.we want to plan for kids..iam so depressed and really wanted to overcome this..i make my mind but once i enter the scene all that fear comes..i am really helpless and really really wanted to overcome this..please help me..

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dollm

hello Susan!! thanks for ur support..yeah its sounds an good idea will try that out..and what i came across on research is VAGINISMUS..but iam not sure are my symptoms leading to vaginismus...and one more question ..is pregnanacy causes only through deep penetration ..and what are the chances with my case....tq u in advance

January 13, 2014 - 8:32pm

superwoman

Dear dollm,
I had exactly the same fear cuz i always felt it would be too hard to let go of my virginity and i was too protective of myself, also i was always scared that i might do it with the wrong person so I just never did it, so that i dont regret later. I was also very very scared of the stupid stories girls write about how much it hurts.
Well, I did it yesterday and I couldnt feel better.
Maybe you need to ease up a bit? I was quite uptight about it too so I kinda know how you feel.
Maybe you need to discuss this with your husband.
I'm sure if you tell him about this, he'll be understanding and careful while you guys do it.
Love, xx.

January 10, 2014 - 12:51pm