My mother had Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis. She doesn't want to make a living will Etc. She think she will just died quickly. But I worry She doesn't have much money and have a home not paid for and some credit card .She now have a big bill to oxygen company because she doesn't understand the bill and I just found out when she move in with me. I am still raising my kid . My husband is my full support and thank God We are OK . But I wanted her to pay her bills and catch up with the bills and save so she will have all the thing that she needed as she lives. I want her to decided that while she in her right mind to prepare her living will written down on legal paper. But she refuse, she believe she is going to die quickly. But I know that sometimes it not true . I want that all my family work together and I am not left Holding the bag. she 75 yrs this is 4 yrs diagnosis I know now she more depend on Oxygen. She angry with me and my sister
tell me that I am crazy tell her that. So I told my mother to go live with my sister and she can make help her. My sister has no kids. I have a son finishing high
school and 15 yrs and 13 yrs old children. I Know that IF she doesn't control her money and prepare for future it going to be every hard on us all. I don't want any of her money She can live with me freely and eat with us. But I want to have the thing she need in her final day . So please tell me more how can one be prepare in all different always?
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