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fingering question

By Anonymous March 2, 2012 - 8:14am
 
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im kind of confused. ive been really under too much stress lately (physical and emotional), been sleeping very late and almost having 3-4hours of sleep only.

My period is still not here, adding another stress up. So basically, im really under a lot of stress. Poor mood, lack of sleep and all. I never had sex, only foreplay. Here's the thing.

My period, is still not here. I feel dry down there (little white discharge, sticky, sometimes none). Somehow my breasts hurts and there are attacks of lower abdomen pains (not always, but it happens) I am concerned if these are prgnancy signs or not.

I only had dry humping and fingering. I am worried somehow why my period is still not here. I try to reason out that stress is the culprit but somehow i am doubtful. See, my guy never fingers me and at the same time, ejaculates near me. He always do it in the washroom, and he said that whenever he does, he's always washing after. Whenever he fingers me, I am sure that there is no large amount of semen (since he does not ejaculates whenever he fingers me) and also, he never fingers me while he's naked. (he's always in pants, and he just slips his hands inside whatever im wearing, i was never naked and all.) As for dry humping, we were always fully clothed, no slippage whatsoever, and he never jacks off in his underwear. He always finishes off in the bathroom.

In short:
- can i get pregnant if there was some chance he brushed his hands across his pants, can precum seep through his pants and get me pregnant (since i told you, he never jacks off in his undies)?

i am really late, and i must admit, this adds up to the stress i am having.
i dont want to take PT since deep inside, i know it is slim to none to get pregnant, but what are the possibilities? any advices? any reliable opinions? I am really glad if i'd get a lot of responses. Thanks! :) OH and also, i experienced like a couple of months ago, a late period also, like 17 days late. (but this one is somehow much more late than the other).

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Hi Anon,

Thanks for asking. However, for pregnancy to occur, he must put ejaculate directly onto the finger and into the vagina. If he stays clothed, there's no chance of pregnancy. 

Stress, lack of sleep, a change in diet, or exercise can lead to a late period. 

Here is a great resource for you to become more familiar with the risks of pregnancy, and non-intercourse activity:

http://www.empowher.com/sexual-health-101

Best,

Danielle.

March 2, 2012 - 8:42am
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Anonymous (reply to Danielle Serrano)

well thank you miss! i really doubt i am pregnant, he did not ejaculate and finger me. always clothed too. thank you for your answer. :) i feel better now. i was also a bit down and anxious. i cant think straight this past few weeks, due to a high amount of stress and depression as well. i also have this pessimistic thing, where in i always think bad things awaits me always. thanks. :D my bf also assured me there's nothing to worry about, since he knows he's clean and all. :)

March 2, 2012 - 9:07am
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