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Foreskin Restoration.. will it fully restore sensitivity? Painful thrusts.. dryness.. lack of gentle rhythm and closeness during lovemaking. Need help.

By Anonymous October 25, 2013 - 10:18am
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My partner 's phallus hurts me and from personal experience, I know this is not natural. First of all, his phallus is skin tight.. misshaping it due to a lack of skin to accommodate his erection. It feels like a stick of wood is penetrating me.

My previous partner was still intact making lovemaking gentle with a gliding rhythmic motion. The foreskin stayed inside of me while his phallus penetrated me in short gentle thrusts. The mucous membrane in the foreskin contained his lubrication leaving my lubrication within. So this dryness.. this discomfort.. is new to me.

Intimacy is shot, as well. With foreskin, there was close contact and with my clitoris. The constant short gentle thrusts against my clitoris made orgasms for me come almost effortlessly. We felt at times that we melted into one another in our lovemaking. When we went our separate ways, I didn't know what I was giving up. I thought all phalluses were treated equally.. apparently not.

Foreskin restoration is the only option to save this relationship. I would like to know if all nerve endings can be restored with this foreskin restoration? Can his lost natural sensitivity be restored? He is missing out on so much true pleasure during lovemaking. Instead he is left exhausted from a speedy race to reach orgasm.. falling asleep almost immediately.. sometimes in pain. As for me, I thought his painful banging was going to destroy my delicate vaginal tissue. We need your help. This is not natural. Lovemaking is supposed to feel incredible. This is not lovemaking. This lack of passion, sensitivity, and intimacy leaves me resentful towards him. It all stems from not having his foreskin. He acts like his penis.. he lacks sensitivity.. in a hurry all of the time.. too busy to talk. My previous partner had a more relaxed easy-going nature that matched his phallus and the pleasure that he got from lovemaking.

My personal experience is validation that sex is linked to our mental, spiritual, and emotional nature. Living in this Information Age, I have read so many stories from women all across the world. So questioning what did not FEEL GOOD to me has been very empowering.

Your ideas, opinions, your personal experience of this nature.. foreskin restoration.. is much appreciated. Thank you.

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Foreskin Restoration will not restore nerve endings like the Ridged band. But it WILL unlock hidden nerve endings in the glans, you see when a man is circumcision, the moist glans quickly keratinizes (Becomes a hard, leather like coating on the glans) which sorta "Hides" the remaining nerve endings. Foreskin Restoration will cover the glans once again and unlock those hidden nerve endings, but it will never be as sensitive as a real intact penis. In short order, Circumcised sex is about a 3, intact sex is a 10 and restored sex is about a 7.

This is coming from a man who restored his Foreskin using the DTR device. Good luck.

October 14, 2014 - 11:33am
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Hi Anon

Thank you for your question.

EmpowHER is a health care site geared towards women so we do not have the resources to help you out. Try a site like Mens Health or Ask Men.

Your partner needs to discuss this with a urologist.

However, we do have some discussions on circumcision here that can help you.

You can start here: http://www.empowher.com/search/site/circumcision

Is your partner looking into his options?



October 25, 2013 - 1:05pm
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