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Found incest porn on boyfriends computer

By December 10, 2016 - 5:04am
 
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I went through my boyfriends history on his laptop and found incest porn...(yes shouldn't be snooping, but he's given me permission to do that for another reason) He doesn't appear to look at porn much ( once in past two weeks) but spent hours looking at it that night and 90% was incest porn.. Brother sister, father forces daughter to watch him Jack off, mom f's son and daughter..

I'm trying to understand it... He's 27 and lives with his 19yr old sister and his mother... I brought it up and was quite upset and he at first made somewhat excuses but then it got to yeah I like those videos but I don't wanna **** my family, and appeared really grossed out on the idea. He said he can't explain why he likes these videos and he guesses it's just the taboo fact. But he's never wanted anyone in his family...

It's been 3 days.... I can't stop thinking about what I found... I'm a female, I've watched some messed up porn during my teen years but i was also molested as a child.... I understand watching a few things but not wanting to go ahead with it in person.. But I'm not sure if I believe him. He's told me he will stop looking at these videos if I want him too... I haven't really said anything... Can someone ease my mind and explain if you like the same thing and why? And is it possible to like incest porn but not fantasise about your own family?

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Hi Katiexo,

Thanks for reaching out to EmpowHer.

This would bother me too! I can only speak for myself in saying I could not just ignore this. I think I'd always wonder if my boyfriend really *had* stopped watching incest porn. You need to feel good about a relationship, trust the person you are with, know you are both on the same page about certain things you deem important. Can a person watch (incest) porn, but not fantasize about it doing it? I suppose so. But the opposite can also be true. It really depends on the person.

Best,
Helena

December 10, 2016 - 6:17am
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