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the guy im seeing is always hard around me, would he be just using as a sex toy?

By August 24, 2009 - 6:05am
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Everytime im with him he always has a boner even if i dont do anything, just the presents of me make him hard and i donno if its normal or if its a bad thing ? .. i just dont want to be used and im scared of what might happen ...

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How long have you been seeing this guy? Have you two had sex already?

He may be fantasizing about you if he hasn't had sex with you yet-- which will in turn give him an erection. I can see how this makes you uncomfortable, I would be too. Also, does he take any medication?

Let us know,


August 25, 2009 - 5:38am
(reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

well i have dated this guy before but we broke up and now were seeing each other again, we dated for a year then broke up and he came back and now were seeing each other .. and even when we were dating he was always hard and not until like the 7 month mark did we have sex but still even if we have sex hes still hard and no hes not on any meds ..

August 28, 2009 - 8:32pm
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