Hey, Im 16 and Im really feeling weird right now. For about 8 months I have been looking at This guy's FACEBOOK page like nearly everyday. I always checked out his wall posts and his photos. He really made me go crazy, though I didnt add him. I didnt add him (send a friend request) because he has A LOT of girls on his profile and talks to all of them, and I thought he won't have time for me. So at last I let go, and didnt want to get my hopes up with this attractive guy.
Last week I was on my facebook and he popped up randomly and i said to myself "oh Ill just add him who cares". So I added him and he accepted my friend request ASAP. We started talking on FACEBOOK and he said really nice and stuff and he said babe to me.. He asked me "whats the furthest you've done with a guy" I said " I only kissed." (I lied, I had sex with my ex before). Then I asked the same thing to him and he was shy he didnt want to tell me, he kept saying "dont worry, youll think wrong of me". But at last I made him tell me, he said " I have done everything, headjob, licking out, sex." although, I wasnt surprized. But the thing is He talks about sexual stuff to me. Like "ohh give me a headjob, I wouldnt want to have sex with you, no sex before marriage". His a type of guy that get shy face to face but by message or facebook, he asks sexual stuff.
About 2 days later we went to the movies and he didnt let me pay, he paid for everything, everything was perfect !!! :) At the movies we entered like half and hour early and spoke about life, and about his school and family, and what kind of movies he likes .. Later after the movies we went to a huge park and sat on the bench , we spoke about a lot stuff, played word games, called each other names but then hugged and got over it. We got along very well. He kept hugging me, and looking into my eyes, my hair was messy around my shoulder and as he was talking to me whilest he was fixing my hair and putting it to the side, it was really good :) He kept looking in to my eyes, and kissed me like 3 or 4 times just a peck on the lips. By the way I told him that I used to stalk his FACEBOOK but didnt add him, cause I got jealous, and he was smiling about it.
After our outing I caught the train and went work In the afternoon, we were messaging when I was at my dads work, I said to him " you wont have time foor me, theres a lot of girls in your life " he said, " theres no any other girl , your my one and only one babe" (although its a bit unbelievable when he has a lot of girls on his FACEBOOK.) IN the evening I left work (around 21:00pm) and I told him I was going over my cousins house and he said ; " come to my area ",
I went to his area straight away and we sat on the bench for about 20 minutes, and just hugged but didnt kiss. He asked me which area I was going to, to my cousins place, I said the area and he was like "Im going to my cousins house in that area too, thats great well catch the train together". He got a phone call out of no where and he's like "ok were coming there now". I said "whats happening I thought we were catching the TRAIN together?" His like "my cousin and aunty knows about you there going to drop you off to your cousins house" , his like "if you dont believe look at the message I sent them half an hour ago" i looked at the message and i was shocked !!! he wrote this to his cousins " hey Im at ... station with my girlfriend can you get me and drop her off to her cousins house please?" and she replied "okay". I went in the car and the aunty and his cousins were just looking at me saying im very cute and all that, they were joking around and said " how can you go out with this idiot', i didnt know what was going on because were not even going out and we only met THAT DAY! so i didnt say anything.
So it has only been a week we have met and I kind of like him , and we were meant to meet up today, he told me he's moving to my area, but he said ' were getting our new house in your area renovated , im helping my dad, if i finish early well meet up." I sent him messages because i was really keen to see him he kept saying " im busy and we still have a lot of things to do as im helping my dad" ..
I got the feeling that he is ignoring me. and im getting the feeling him ignoring me because when ever i say call me he says "im with my mum', " im with my family"... but anyway,,, Why do you think he told his AUNTY AND COUSIN that I was his girlfriend? why would he do this? and what do you guys think about this guy?..
is he playing around? or does he like me?
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