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ask: help!! pregnancy is all over my mind. Cant get over it!

By radhika
 
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I am 16 yrs old... I didnt have sex..just
dry
humping....with me wearing jeans..my
bf inserted his hands in pants..maybe
touched his penis and then started
touching me but he says he didnot
ejaculate...
we met on 2nd sept. den i took a hpt
on 27th it was -ve. On 3rd oct i even
got my period bt it lasted 4 days
only.My last period before it was on
23rd july. I m usually irregular. Den i
went for a bld test on 14th oct..even it

was -ve
still i was feeling that i am
experiencing some symptoms so i
took 2 hpts on 20th and 29th
respectively dey both were negative.
Even then my belly was bloated and i
was literally very hungry.
So finally i went for another blood test
on 23rd nov. nd it was negative so i
asked the hcg level,he said that it was
below 10 but i have read that if it is
below 5 only den i m nt pregnant so i
asked him y is it so? he said that the
machine they use shows like this but i
ain't prg.I was already 12 weeks by
then. Also i got another period on
24th nov. which just ended yesterday
29th nov. and it was normal i guess!
i still have that bloated belly n i feel
that it is similar to a 3 months prg
belly i have seen on net.. it is growing
but i dont know that its only me or
really i m growing that much. if u can give me a personal contact of yours i could send u the pics so if u can help.
Dont have the courage to go to a
gynaec..nd its illegal here. I live in
india.
Plz help.
I didnt experience much symptoms...i
guess strong smelling sensation,leg
swelling and also vomitting during first
month.
I also am experiencing back pain
today but dont know it is because of
my poor posture or pregnancy

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Susan Cody HERWriter Guide

Hi radhika

You are not getting pregnant by your boyfriend by making out with your clothes on.

You have been very focused and honestly - a little obsessed with this for months. I think you should worry less about pregnancy and more about why your stress levels are so high. Why do you put yourself though all this? What are the benefits from it?

You need to  talk to someone to figure out why your stress levels are so high and why you are obsessing so much about pregnancy. If you don't want to get pregnant , don't have sex or put yourself in a situation where you may get pregnant.

But the real issue is the emotional anxiety that you are going through. Tell your boyfriend you need to stop fooling around for a while and talk to someone about your panic over this all the time. It's not good for your health.

We wish you the best,

Susan

November 30, 2012 - 1:01pm
radhika (reply to Susan Cody)

Thanks.I know my stress level is way high so i will definately do something about it.

December 1, 2012 - 12:12am
radhika

i just think what if i wud be prg and wont be able to know before 4 months are conpleted

November 30, 2012 - 11:50am
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