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By Anonymous November 1, 2012 - 7:27am
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Last night the wife asked me, if she needed to go to the other bed room, because I was asleep and I was masterbating. Well me as a male, I didnt know I was doing it, and I know I wasnt having a wet dream. this has been happening for 2 weeks straight. and our sex life has been normal. but Im not sure if I know if Im doing it or not. I have been talking to a couple of people on facebook, one of them is a guy I like, and the other is his girl friend, and for me to have sexual fantansies about her are nonexistant, but the wife wants to know why Im doing it. Truthfully I didnt know I was, PLZ HELP. I tell her I cant control myself while Im asleep or know what Im doing is this true or not?

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Hi Anon!

Thanks for your question!

What you are doing is normal. Maybe your wife just happened to see it for the first time a couple of weeks ago and is now looking out for it.

It's normal, you can't help it. Maybe you could show her a website (you can do a simple google search) that explains it. she needs to calm down a little; it's really not a big thing.

I'm not sure about your Facebook story or how it pertains to your question.



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