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hi am linda ,i m 18 ,my question is ,when i was 12 years i have had sex with my bf but i think it was not such sex b\c i don't see blood or i don't fill any thing ,i think that he didn't find the only vigaina , now i have new bf & i tell him that i am

By Anonymous February 20, 2012 - 12:25pm
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virgin ,sooo am i virgin or no ? say anything p\s b\c i m in stress ,
thanks for help

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Hi Linda

Thanks for your post and welcome!

We cannot tell you if you are a virgin or not, because we have no idea what happened when you were 12. If you are unsure, then is no way we would know.

If you believe you had sexual intercourse, then you are no longer a virgin. If you think you did not - rather just engaged in foreplay - then you are a virgin. As this happened the age of 12, it's understandable that you are confused now. How old was your boyfriend at the time?

Is your new boyfriend also a virgin? Do you think he won't want to be with you if you are not?

We hope to hear back from you!


February 20, 2012 - 12:50pm
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