Friday night I decided to try oral on my boyfriend for the very first time. I did so for about 25 minutes and there was only some pre-cm. We've been together for a very long time but just for reassurance purposes before I did anything I made sure he was clean. He said he got a shot or 2 preventing against something (I'm not sure what it is) and was tested. And in the past he has given a blood donation.
Saturday morning I woke up and for whatever reason decided to look in my throat and I freaked out completely because I noticed on my left side of my throat (back towards the uvula on the soft palate) there was a halo of red with a slightly whitish ring inside of it. I immediately started looking stuff up on google and narrowed it down to two things: oral herpes or I got HIV from there being a sore in my mouth that I didn't know what it was from.
I thought to myself some more & forgot a couple of days ago I had a sore throat only on the left side and it hurt when my tongue would rub against it when I swallowed but I honestly didn't even think to look in my throat when it was hurting. So idk if it was there before or not. It has gone down in redness since yesterday.
Now may I add that we are both virgins, that is the very first sexual thing we have EVER done on anyone, we do not share needles or never have shared needles with anyone else, have not came in contact with an infected persons blood, or was not born into HIV/AIDS. I'm just so confused and worried that I could have something wrong with me. Does anything pose a risk? Sorry this is so long!
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