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How do I get my husband to make me feel sexy?

By Anonymous April 20, 2011 - 6:51pm
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I am 27 and have been married for about 6months but have lived with my husband for 7years. Recently we had an upseting situation but it connected us on a more personal level and he couldn't take his hands off me for two weeks. Now nothing...he just dropped his advances towards me and has not wanted to make love. He was never this bad...he would atleast tell me how sexy I was or "grab me" atleast once a day. Now absolutely nothing...not even a "hungry eye". How do I bring the romance back? OR feel sexy again?

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Hi Anonymous,

It's hard to say whether you can make him think you are sexy or whether he already does think you're sexy just hasn't expressed it lately.

If he has lost interest because you've been dressing down, put on a few pounds,have been extra moody lately-- then it's really all a matter of sorting your differences out. However, if he doesn't find you sexy no matter how hard you try-- then he won't find you sexy no matter what you do.

My question is: How do you know he doesn't find you sexy? Could it be that he has been extra busy? Stressed?
You mentioned having a fall out before, perhaps this time instead of having a fall out, try getting his perspective-- men sometimes don't realize that we need to feel sexy, even if we have been with the same person for decades.

Best of Luck to you.

April 21, 2011 - 5:08am
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Anonymous (reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

Thank you for your advice.

April 21, 2011 - 4:01pm
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