My boyfriend of three years (my first real relationship) is close to leaving me,he loves me but he's not sure anymore if he wants to be with me.Im 23 but act way younger, Im immature and havent grown into what a 23 year old woman should be, he's 30 and says he needs a woman, someone with confidence, independant, more qualities of a woman,he says im more like a daughter than a girlfriend and im so hurt, because I wish I was a mature womanly 23 year old to make him want me. he says I have no presence or aura like woman are supposed to have.how do you get this?I try to stand tall,be confident when I walk outside but then men look at me and say something and I get shy and look down.
I dont wanna lose this guy,hes the love of my life. what will I do , when he dumps me and in a few months or so,I see that he has got a woman as a girlfriend and he will probably want to do all the things with her that I have dreamed about with him-engagement,marriage,kids,it will tear my heart in two if he leaves me and does all this with someone else. I will feel like I'm not good enough becuas eif all men want a 'woman' what chance have I got in finding someone,im a kid still... :(
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