My boyfriend, which i have been with for 15 months is turning 18 soon and has recently informed me that he will be heading out to the strippers, going to pubs and hitting the clubs. As i am not 18 until half way through next year i cannot go with him and i find it hard to accept that him going to the strippers is okay.. i want him to have a good time but the strippers takes it one step too far for me and i personally am not comfortable with another woman seducing my boy. i find it disrespectful to eye other women's bodies let along be danced on or felt (seriously!?) it completely crushes my self confidence to even hear about him going because i already am body conscious... i have talked to him about this and he keeps reassuring me it's just a guy thing and that there isn't anything wrong with looking and not touching, (what if his mates pay for a lap dance he will feel peer pressured and rude to say no!)i have a bad feeling that when he goes i will break up with him just because i can't stand the thought of it, i don't mind the pub and clubbing so much even though there is a higher chance of him meeting girls there.. but it's the fact that women are seducing him for his money ah! i know what people usually say is that he loves me.. blah blah blah, but i am the one who should be looked at not some random woman parading herself all over my boyfriend, i wonder if religiously it is wrong? i deep down think it's disgusting and wrong to me. HELP!? i don't want to feel so threatened by this, is it wrong for him to go? am i too demanding if i say i don't feel comfortable with it? (i also said he could go if i came with him but he said no)
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