I am a 21 year old female and on Jan 16 I had emergency surgery to remove 2 litres of blood from my abdomen and my right ovary. I have a history of ovarian cysts and the scar tissue connected my ovary to my abdomen wall which I apparently ripped it from. I cried for days afterwards for no reason at all I wasn't mad or upset which was easy to handle. It's almost been a month now and pardon my language but I'm above and beyond being an irritable bitch. My doctor doesn't even want to discuss hormone replacements for at least a year which I know only having had surgery a month ago now is probably too soon for hormones. But I'm destroying my relationships with my friends, my boyfriend, and my Co workers. I have absolutely no control as to how I feel or why. My boyfriend and my best friend (who is a male) have practically teamed up against me insisting I am using my medical issues to act out. I don't want to fight with people or hurt anyone but I'm irritable and then when my boyfriend and my friend try and discuss this they insist I have control over how I feel I just choose to let it take its course. I am ruining and pushing away my only support system which I'm pretty sure is not helping my hormone issues. These men are naive and don't have deal with the hellishly curse of having a female reproductive system. I guess first and foremost I want validation I'm not crazy, or at least this craziness is hormone issue based and eventually can be balanced out. Help!
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