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How do you know when it over?

By March 31, 2012 - 4:30pm
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first and foremost I love my husband but I have been having a hard time getting him to have sex with me or even just showing me any type of affection at all and its been almost 2yrs now we have 2 kids together and I don't want to lose him but sometimes I wonder if I already have he keeps telling all different types of reasons why but I think that its more than what he really is saying just don't know what to do I don't think that he's cheating or anything like that but I would never know but the feeling that I get from this make me feel real bad about myself a feeling that I never felt before...please someone help me

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Hi I am Lonely,

Thank you for your question and I am sorry to hear that you are going through this feeling. This is truly a question only you can answer for yourself. You know when it is time to move on or make things work. In any relationship, it does take two people to either make it or break it.


Have you thought about counseling? It takes time and patience in any relationship when feelings are hurt or change. It is not fair for him to make you feel inadequate in any way so if you are feeling unwanted, this is a serious problem as women need emotional committments.

So the real question is, what are you going to do? How can you change this?

Good luck,


April 1, 2012 - 5:24am
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