i am having sex with my husban and even with my boy friend.but am happy 2 have with bf.but both havng sex only with me without condm.they dont have any desease.i cant leave my hub coz of our son.am 26yrs old nd he is 35yrs nd bf 27. aids get in this?

Hi anonymous, just as an addition to what Allison has already mentioned, it is common to get bacterial vaginosis from having multiple partner sex also. Are you experiencing any symptoms? Is this why you have asked this particular question?

I'm not understanding what your question is, but it is important to use a condom if you are having sex with multiple partners. Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are highly contagious, and can be passed from one person to another in relationships where one (or both) partners are not mutually monogamous. You are not being monogamous (choosing only one sexual partner), and therefore, should be using a condom each and every time you have sex with either your husband or your boyfriend. It is not fair to your husband that he does not know that you are having sex outside your marriage and could possibly bring home an STD or STI to him without him being able to protect himself.

Does that answer your question?