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It has been over a year since I last had sex.....why won't women have sex with me anymore? I'm a very heterosexual man who has been going through some tough times, the toughest part has been the lack of sexual contact in my life. The last time I had a truely sexually emotional experience was over EIGHT YEARS AGO! I am not some hideous monster, nor am I George Clooney....I am just your average(sometimes above-average)guy who is looking for someone special in his life to be loving and intimate with.
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Because you seem like an intuitive, insightful young woman who is sensitive to men's feelings I'll let you in on what happened. I suffer from a condition called Dystonia, it effects the way that I walk....two years ago I had surgery to correct this problem(it is called Deep Brain Stimulation surgery), unfortunately this surgery has caused side effects, it effects my speech(making me sound tense), causes tightness in my neck, difficulty with certain hand movements, but it has improved my walking. Prior to this surgery I had a decent sex life....nothing spectacular.
January 8, 2011 - 9:15pmThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
January 8, 2011 - 10:06amI am sorry you feel that women are not interested in sex with you anymore. Have you considered that maybe your feelings are internal besides external? It is important to feel confident within yourself to be attractive to the opposite sex. If you are confident, then women will be attracted to you (no matter what your physical attraction is) as well as the full effect that leads to sexual activity.
Women generally do not operate the same as men when it comes to sex. I say generally since some women are all sex based about relationships or can be casual. So in a general sense, women are not attracted to men instantly for sex ONLY. Consider this while you are trying to obtain a sexual partner. I hope this helps in some sense for your need for sexual activity.
Good luck,
Missie
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Thank you for your comments Missie, but I have(all but most recently)been very confident in myself. How else can a man display his confidence?
January 8, 2011 - 10:21amThis Comment