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i am so worried about getting pregnant. can someone help me out?

By Anonymous February 11, 2012 - 7:48am
 
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we have been doing some foreplay for months now. its always some fingering or dry humping. can i get pregnant through these? i mean, i always got my period. but now i am worried. im irregular. i dont really know when my period would come. always 30 days, or 40 ++ days. Now i feel pain in my lower abdomen and sometimes bloated. we also did something during our outing. we were close to each other. his genital close to mine. but there was NO penetration. although he got turned on. I am worried that pre-cum might pass through clothes and into me. is that possible? he did not come. can someone help me? clarify things? can i get pregnant through this? and fingering too?

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Hi Anonymous,

You can relax, there is no way you can get pregnant through: Dry humping or fingering, and sperm does NOT permeate through clothing. Please use the links below for more information:

http://www.empowher.com/community/share/outercourse-dry-humping-dry-sex-and-other-sexual-behaviors

http://www.empowher.com/sex-amp-relationships/content/misconceptions-sex

Good Luck,

Rosa

February 11, 2012 - 1:54pm
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Anonymous (reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

is there a chance if he accidentally touched his thing?

February 12, 2012 - 8:35am
(reply to Anonymous)

What do you mean by "Accidentally"? He wouldn't accidentally touch the head of his penis with his fingertips-- if his hand brushed it then there's still no chance because that doesn't guarantee that there was sperm on his penis/hand. Please do not look into this too much. The "what if's" are what get people into thinking that they may get pregnant from circumstances that really aren't possible. 

Good Luck,

Rosa

February 12, 2012 - 12:44pm
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Anonymous (reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

i am so sorry. thank you. its just that. not knowing when my period would come worries me, since im irregular. it really stresses me out..

February 13, 2012 - 2:21am
(reply to Anonymous)

There's no need to apologize. Just remember that stress can also delay your period. So, take a deep breathe and relax. Stop thinking about the incident and your period will come. 

Best,

Rosa

February 14, 2012 - 8:17am
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Anonymous (reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

if we did not have sex, i should not be worried right? im sorry, i just really am anxious about it. i feel tired, mood swings setting in, sometimes bloated and my breasts hurts sometimes. also, i check my vaginal fluids regularly. recently, i feel a bit dry down there, i mean, not like the time when my period had just stopped. what does that mean, when there is no fluid or somewhat a bit but not as much as before?

February 15, 2012 - 4:43am
(reply to Anonymous)

If you did not have sex, then there is no chance of pregnancy. 

Your vagina cleanses itself routinely and you may notice more discharge not only upon excitability but also during other times of the month, then there are other days when it will seem much drier-- this is normal. 

Rosa

February 17, 2012 - 7:28am
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Anonymous (reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

i really am grateful to your responses. thank you so much for your help. i feel a lot better now. i would just wait for my period then. thank you again :)

February 17, 2012 - 8:13am
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