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i can never have an orgasm when i have sex. is something wrong with me?

By September 7, 2011 - 10:54pm
 
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I can give myself orgasms on my own. However, when i have sex with my partner i can never have one.I've had friends tell me that oral helps but i don't like it. I never really liked receiving oral sex.

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Hi susan thanks for responding. I have had this problem for as long as i have been active. I was never able to have an orgasm with any of my partners. And most of them were pretty in tune with my needs. No matter how long it lasted i was never able to finish. Don't get me wrong i enjoyed making love very much, but orgasms were never present.

About the other problems i have had with my boyfriend, i found that talking about it did help. With the advice i have received from this website i feel more comfortable bringing up the things i have problems with. I think its the approach i take that makes all the difference. I would really come off kind of pushy and frustrated, which didn't help. Now i know how to bring up my concerns in a positive light.

September 8, 2011 - 12:10pm
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