I didn't know before until rather recently, but I've never had an orgasm, or at least I don't think I have. I think its impossible for me. I always just enjoyed sexual activities like fingering and oral, but I never really realized what I was missing out on. I always just assumed that what I was feeling was the most any one did, until my current boyfriend brought it up. He would always be disappointed that he wasn't able to give me an orgasm. No other guy has brought up that I haven't had an orgasm, but I guess they were just to dumb to know, or too mean to tell me. I have heard some things like the better you know how to please yourself the easier it will be for someone else to do it, but I'm not really big into masturbation. Not that I think it is wrong, it just doesn't really work for me, I have no urge to do it. I also am aware that because I am younger (18) I might just need to wait until I'm older. I am not currently sexually active, but shouldn't I be able to have an orgasm through other sexual activities? Anyone have any advice?
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