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i dont know whats going on with my boyfriend?

By November 17, 2010 - 7:01am
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me and my boyfriend love each other. but lately for the past week he hasnt had sex with me. we use to have it almost everyday skip a day here and there. i dont know what the problem is? the first thing that came in mind is that he is cheating. he lives in mississippi i stay with him alot but during the week i saty at home. He's also been acting very strange. It seems like all we do is argue now but thats parcially my fault because im being a bitch because i want to knwo whats going on. Its not like i havent tried. Ive been trying my hardest to seduce him but he just ignores and tells me to stop and pushes me away. it makes me feel like he doesnt want me anymore. ive been so depressed about the whole situation. all ive been doing is getting really messed up sleeping and crying alot. im so unhappy now i just want back the guy i fell in love with. he texted me the other day after i was home saying that he missed me sooooo much and he would act different the next time i see him. But why has he been acting the way he has? and why has he stopped having sex with me? i dont know what to do but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!

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Hi emoretta

Thanks for your question and welcome!

If this has only happened for a week, I wouldn't worry about it and he has also said he's sorry and will make an effort to make things right. So take it for what it is and give him a chance to do so. It has only been a week. Maybe he didn't feel well or had a stressful week or wasn't sleeping properly. Anyone can have a really bad week and just need some understanding and support.

However, if you feel this may turn into something long term, take a look at this article: http://www.empowher.com/community/ask/why-doesnt-my-boyfriend-want-have-sex-me-anymore and the hundreds of posts of advice, tips and experiences of women just like you.

For now, tell him you love him and ask him if he's ok and things may go back to normal. At least he called you and acknowledged his behavior. Give him another chance before taking your fears to the next level!

Let us know how things go and I wish you the best, emoretta!

November 17, 2010 - 1:21pm
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