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I had sex for the first time day before yesterday. I was bleeding a bit after sex and i was bleeding again today. I feel pain while peeing and ut burns a bit. I feel like peeing but when i go to pee its just a few drops and its transparent but dense.

By Anonymous March 25, 2015 - 6:50am
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I had my pregnancy test done twice which was negative plus i had my birth control pill. I have two questions. 1. Am i pregnant?
2. What is causing that pain? And what can i do as precautions

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Hello Anonymous,

If you are taking your birth control pills regularly, meaning at the same time every day, then you should be protected from becoming pregnant.

The bleeding following intercourse could be from the tearing of your hymen. The hymen is a thin tissue that covers much of the opening of the vagina. Though thin, the hymen is filled with blood vessels and so when it tears, there is often some visible blood.

Burning with urination and the frequent urge to urinate could indicate you have a urinary tract infection. Some women are prone to developing UTIs after sexual intercourse. UTIs are treated with antibiotics. You will need to visit your doctors' office and give a urine sample.

In order to prevent the development of UTIs, it is important to drink plenty of water, urinate when you feel the urge, rather than holding urine for extended periods, and urinate after intercourse.

Hope this helps,

March 25, 2015 - 8:00am
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

I am 19 and i dont think its time to tell my parents that i had an intercourse... So if i go to the doctor... Will she know that i got urinary tract infection due to intercourse?

March 25, 2015 - 9:40am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,

As a 19 year old, you are no longer considered to be a minor and it is up to you to decide if you want to tell your parents that you have had intercourse.

A physician will exercise patient/doctor confidentiality. You can be honest with her. It will help with a diagnosis. It will be a good opportunity to discuss birth control options.


March 25, 2015 - 9:44am
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

What about sore vaginal opening..?

March 25, 2015 - 10:06am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,

The soreness could be caused by friction and lack of adequate lubrication. Applying an ice pack for a short time might ease the discomfort.


March 26, 2015 - 8:31am
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