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I think my boyfriend is cheating on me

By Anonymous January 10, 2011 - 5:33pm
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Lately he seems to not have any time for me. We used to be very close. But lately he won't spend anytime with me even though I hint I want to spend time with him, he seems to put everything before me, we don't hold hands anymore, we don't kiss, we don't have sex anymore, he always walks ahead of me, he used to always be touching me sexually but he doesn't do that anymore, he doesn't tell me I'm beautiful anymore but comments on how attractive and sexy other women are, he wants me to touch him sexually all the time but he won't touch me ever. Yet i have talked to him many times about this and he always says I'll try harder. He does better for 2 days then goes back. He has changed all his passwords. I don't know what to think anymore.

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The beauty of any relationship depends on the trust and the affection. If you can keep the faith and the trust then definitely you can enjoy a happy relationship. So I think you should keep trust and then enjoy the charm of the relationship.
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January 11, 2011 - 9:56am

I think you do know what to think, right? Does this sound like a mutually healthy and happy relationship, if one of your friends was describing this story to you?

A relationship without physical affection, whether or not he's cheating on you or has fallen out of love, is just a friendship, right? And, he does not even sound like a great friend if he's just placating your concerns by "trying harder for 2 days" and then going back to his old ways.

And yes, changing all passwords is not a sign of trust. I'm sorry that he is not communicating his true feelings with you; it is frustrating when someone is making their feelings obvious by their actions, yet we are still waiting for them to say the difficult words. It sounds like you may need to be the mature one in this relationship and let him know it's not working for you.

We wish you the best!

January 11, 2011 - 9:30am
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