ask: I´ve been dating a guy for two months and sex has always been great between us.. but latetly i havent been able to spend anytime with himi alone and i dont miss been intimate with him although i see him very often. should I end it?

Dear Anon

It sounds like you're not quite ready to settle down with anyone yet. There's nothing wrong with that, I assume you are young?

Just enjoy dating without pressure. In time, and when you meet the right guy, you'll be more comfortable in a more 'serious' relationship.

I agree with Susan. I dated several men in my young life and when I found myself seeking attention from other men, well, I just wasn't satisfied with the one I was with. Take your time.....enjoy dating, flirting and just enjoying the attention.

When you find the right guy for you, all that tends to disappear.

Thank you so much for your comments, i agree with you guys, i really dont think im ready for a serious relationship either, not at this time of my life... although i still go out for dates, and every once in a while something gets a little more serious than usual, after dting the person for a couple of weeks i lose interest... i tell myself all the time that i really dont want to get seriously envolved in a relationship but then again when it happens i just find myself already involved.. so i guess i just need to step back from the dating scene for a while...

I am 24 years old and already divorced, i was married to the father of my daughter for 5 y ears, and it has been 3 years since we got divorced, ever since i have only had one serious boyfriend and right now i enjoy my time alone, although i do enjoy dating and flirting... but mostly i have to focus on my career right now, and that is one strong reason for which i dont seek something stable in my love life for the moment...

i will def take your advice and take my time to take things slow and go with the flow of things, if it works out and it feels good, then i´ll enjoy it while it lasts...