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ask: if you missed a period, does that automatically mean you are pregnant?

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i really doubt i am, but the absence of my period makes me think twice.

i never had sex, nor had my bf ejac during our foreplay (dry humping). can pre-cum seep through our clothes and get me pregnant?

also, we did some fingering, i cant remember if he had semen on his hands. which we both doubt. he said he would have known if he had, and i think i wouldve too.

i've been stressed out, and had been emotional / depressed because of the thought i might be pregnant. we've been doing this for months now, but i always had my period. although its really.. inconsistent. sometimes early, sometimes late. i recall that i was like, roughly two weeks late from my estimated time of period last nov.

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Anonymous

Hi Anon,

Definitely, that type of behavior will not be accepted here.

Best

April 9, 2012 - 6:06am
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Anonymous

If you do not know the answers to any of these questions you have asked......GET EDUCATED! This is stuff that my 12 year old can answer. Stop fooling around with your "bf" until you know what you are doing

April 4, 2012 - 3:16pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

who are you to tell who's educated and who's not? i cannot know everything, and you could not simply put into conclusion that i am NOT educated. I AM EDUCATED, and this is some things that is not taught in every school. Why? Do you even know where I came from? Where I came from, this is a very sensitive topic, and I am using this site to give answers to my questions. I'd rather ask than sit here wondering and stressing myself. Stop being so mean and try to understand that there are some people that gets easily freaked out or paranoid, or does not simply know everything. Im sorry but anon, you are just being mean.

April 9, 2012 - 5:54am
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Anonymous

Hi Anon,

Yes also to fingering. Please see the previous replys i've posted.  If you are still concern please see a doctor.

Best,

Daisy

February 29, 2012 - 6:26am
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Anonymous

we did some fingering, i cant remember if he had semen on his hands. which we both doubt. he said he would have known if he had, and i think i wouldve too -- could i be at risk with fingering? why is my period really late? :( im not experiencing nausea or any food cravings, my lower abdomen hurts SOMETIMES. and my breast hurts only whenever i touch or brush over them :(

February 29, 2012 - 6:07am
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Anonymous

Hi Anon,

Without penetration or intercourse it's unlikely you will be pregnant.

Best,

Daisy

 

February 29, 2012 - 5:54am
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Anonymous

Hi Anon,

You can't get pregnant with your clothes.  Without intercourse is very unlikely you will pregnant.  Penetration has to occur in order for the sperm to be able to swim through the vagina.  If you still feel concerned you might want to take a pregnancy test when your period is due.  You can't estimate your cycles from last nov. Because it depends also how many days in each month.  If not, you might want to see a doctor and let him know of the changes in your cycles.  Please see the following link. Am sure it will help.

http://www.empowher.com/sexual-health-101

Best,

Daisy

February 28, 2012 - 6:49am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

that also applies with fingering right? i mean, how could i be at risk with fingering. he said he was clean and i know he did not jack off and proceed immediately with fingering. how about if he brushed accidentally on his penis (outside the pants) or the penis itself? how about the pre-cum?

February 28, 2012 - 8:16am
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Anonymous

Hi Anon,

Welcome to EmpowHER.  No, you can't get pregnant if you were wearing your clothes. The delay on your period can be due to your cycle not always being regular and also stress. Sometimes we're so stressed out that our body decreases the amount of a hormone (GnRH), which causes us to not ovulate or menstruate. 

Here is link that can help

www.empowher.com/sexual-health-101

Best,

Daisy

February 28, 2012 - 5:47am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

so miss, its like im worrying too much? can i possibly be pregnant or the fact that i am worrying about this, day until i sleep cause the delay? yes, somehow i think i am irregular. :s

February 28, 2012 - 6:26am
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