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Im 15 and I had a frequent urine for a day, my lower stomach hurts.

By Anonymous February 12, 2011 - 3:38am
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I need help . I tried having sex on the 21st of january and did not use contraception. I dont know if my boyfriend went in and broke my virginity but i felt that his penis was in. however i didnt not feel anything while he found it very pleasurable. I did not bleed and didnt feel anything that enjoyed me. (I always feel dizzy.) After the 21st of january we tried the same thing again but used condoms for a couple of times. I didnt bleed or felt anything those times either. On The 9th of february i bought some tablets for my sore throat. On the 10th of february i took two tablets in the morning and went to school. (the doctor said take 2 in the morning and 2 at night.) That day at school i had a frequent urination , when i urinated i got the worst pain in my stomach and i peed like a drop of urine every hour. and I had this weird feeling in my stomach. My urination and weird feeling in my stomach ended the night of the 10th of february. On the 11th of february which is yesterday my boyfriend and I tried having sex, again. I did not bleed nor feel anything, again. We had unprotected sex i guess but he ejaculated on my bed. after him ejaculating 5 minutes later i couldnt walk and sit. My lower stomach hurts so much since yesterday , we dont know why but it isnt my vagina nor my stomach its the part in between them . And it is bloated up. It hurts when i sneeze and cough. I am going to buy a pregnancy test this week. I am just waiting for my periods to come on the 25th of february this month. If my periods come on the 25th does it mean im not pregnant?

Please tell me the reason why, i had a frequent pain urination for a day, feel dizzy and my lower stomach hurts.

I am 15 and not sure if my virginity is broken.

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what can i do to prove it to him?

February 21, 2011 - 2:43am
(reply to Anonymous)

Nothing, really. You can't really "prove" that he is wrong, and you are right.

If you are considering having sex again, just make sure to use a condom. You might want to keep the lights on, be more aware of his and your bodies. You can see his erect penis. You can see the condom on his erect penis. You can feel his erect penis. There really isn't any need to prove this...he either has an erection or not. Just be more observant, and you both sound like you may need to slow things down and be intimate in other ways first!

February 22, 2011 - 11:22am
EmpowHER Guest

Thank you. You are really helping meeee ! umm yeah i can feel and enjoy when he touches my genitalia. but when he inserts i dont enjoy it , like i guess a women is supposed to enjoy when it goes in but i dont. and i am curious about that. I satrted thinking im abnormal and i would never ever feel anything in the future aswell.
I dont know if my age matters maybe when im 20 i would feel. do you think it is cos of my age>? Sometimes we talk about it and he says "maybe when i try going in it slips and just rubs it and doesnt go in the hole, maybe thats why you dont feel anything". I didnt bleed at all. And in my religion a girl is supposed to bleed. if she doesnt this means she had sex before with someone else . i dont want him to think like that i want him to know that i never did anything like that , but i dont know why im not bleeding. thank you for your helpp :)

February 19, 2011 - 5:28am
(reply to Anonymous)

I am wondering if your boyfriend is losing his erection (this is normal), and his penis is not actually inside your vagina. You said he "thinks" it doesn't go in the hole...men know if their penis is inside a woman's vagina or if it isn't.

There is a huge misconception that all women bleed the first time they have sexual intercourse, and this is untrue. I know in your religion a girl is supposed to bleed, but it is an unfortunate myth that continues to be repeated (and creates an environment that perpetuates the cycle of psychological and physical harm for many women in many countries). Please know that some women were born with hymens, some were not. Some women's hymens bleed during intercourse, some do not. Some women's hymens have been stretched during normal activities that are not sexual, and they may not bleed during intercourse.

February 20, 2011 - 10:17pm
EmpowHER Guest

I do feel his penis inside me but i dont enjoy it i dont feel anything. Annd i never used a tampon.

February 15, 2011 - 4:51pm
(reply to Anonymous)

I just wanted to make sure that you had some feelings/sensations inside your vagina (the reasoning behind my questions).

If you actually feel his penis, but do not enjoy it...that is a different issue.

Do you enjoy other sexual sensations, including him touching other parts of your genitalia (clitoris, labia, etc)? Do you enjoy other sexual sensations on other parts of your body?

Many of our sexual feelings originate in our brain, and women who have difficulty enjoying sexual sensations need to look at what their feelings, thoughts and emotions are telling them about the situation first. Your mind is the post powerful sex organ...truly...regardless of age or sexual experience. Please use this time to consider if your emotions are telling you to slow down, if this is not the right person at this time for this level of intimacy (and please know, this is not all about your age...this advice is for women aged 15 to 95!).

February 17, 2011 - 9:56am
EmpowHER Guest

No but I have friends and they say use condoms each time aswell.
I know at this age i wont be ready for sex but, Why dont I feel anything? I know and I can feel that his penis is going in but i dont feel anything. And my stomach doesnt hurt anymore and i dont go to the toilet more often,.

February 14, 2011 - 2:01am
(reply to Anonymous)

I am not sure why you would not feel his penis inside your vagina...is that what you are asking?

Have you ever used a tampon, and if so, were you able to feel a tampon or your own finger going inside your vagina?

February 15, 2011 - 12:31pm

I am unsure if you are still experiencing the pain with sneezing and coughing, and if you are having pain while urinating (or the urgency to go, but not much urine coming out).

If you are still having any symptoms, please call your doctor. You can have a urinary tract infection if you have any pain or other strange sensations while urinating.

If your stomach is hurting from coughing or sneezing, and it continues, it is also best to call your doctor.

Having unprotected sex puts you at risk for pregnancy. If you do not want to be pregnant at this time (I assume you do not want to be pregnant, right?!), then please use a condom each and every time. I am concerned that you do not sound emotionally ready to be having sex, as you are in denial and not even knowing that you are having sex, and that would mean you are no longer a virgin.

Please, please wait to have sex with your boyfriend until you and he can learn more about what sex is, what it means to have sex, what your body parts are called (the part of your body between your vagina and stomach that hurts when you pee is called your urethra).

Do you have a trusted adult you can talk to, or a nurse at school?

February 13, 2011 - 9:10pm
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