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ask: Im just so hurt and it kills me feeling this way :(

Can i be mentally hurt because its been 2 weeks since my boyfriend and i broke up at first i cried like 3 minutes and then i was alright but now im feeling hurt i thought it was my feelings that got hurt but most times i feel like crying cause i feel so hurt just remembering him and hate that. I know im young but why would he share is dreams with me and hurt me that is just really weird and claim he loves me when he didn't just thinking about it hurts me i am now regretting the feeling i had for him i knew i cared but could my heart be hurt as well resulting in all this feeling to cry?? 2 nights this week i dream t that his cousin said to im sorry that my cousin hurt u and et and the next time i dream t he just called me on my cell phone out of the blues what is really happening to me im not suppose 2 be thinking of him but i must say some time i miss him and i wonder if he thinks about me at all. I don't want to ever care or love any 1 else if this will happen to me again in the future it pains me to the bone. im angry that i had to call him the day 2 ask him why he is always busy and cant call that's the time he choose 2 brake up, he a pussy why couldn't he man up and tell me that face to face forgive my language but im just mad i didn't get to slap him lolz

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DaisyN Guide

Hi Keisha lee,

All those feelings are normal to feel after a relationship comes to an end.  It happens to everyone, It's part of growing up and learning how to eventually find what you really need in your future partner.  It's important to focus yourself on other activities and maybe going out with your friends.  Until all these emotional feelings are gone.

Best,

Daisy

March 1, 2013 - 5:06am
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