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Im scared and young. i think i could be prego but im not sure. and to sacred to ask my mom

By Anonymous May 30, 2011 - 1:12pm
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Me and my boyfreind have had sex a few time in the past 2 month. we only were safe once. but he always pulled out. comdons make me break out so we dont use them. i was support to have got my peroid the 5th of may. its the 30th. i dont know what to do. so far my boobs have been killing me and my lower belly. EVER thing makes me cry. My boyfreind thinks i am. and is happy but im 16 and scared. what should i do? and do you think im prego?

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telling her shes to young for sex isnt helpfully u shouldnt coment if ur just going to say something stupid and unless. im her best freind and that just made her cry u rude heartless person. please feel freee not to leave hurtful coment to scaerd teens.

June 23, 2011 - 11:56am
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you could be pregnant even if the test comes back neg. take another one at home, the same happened to my friend

June 18, 2011 - 1:12pm

my at home test came back poss. and that scared ( im gessing) my ex bf bc he left and seem not to care. the doctors pee test thingy said neg. but i still feel sick and wierd tried and sore. no period for almost 3 mouths now. idk what to do. same girl has ^^^b4 just made this accont so i can ask what do to for help. ive also grain wiegth rite in my belly i look like a bballls in my gut :(

June 17, 2011 - 7:36pm
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Anonymous (reply to southerngirl21)

U could also ask your Dr for a blood pregnancy test, it would be more accurate than urine. But u need to do it sooner rather than later. If you are pregnant, the longer you wait the fewer options you have. The amount of tome you have also depends on where you live.

June 19, 2011 - 8:25pm
(reply to southerngirl21)

You need to go to a specialist (Gynecologist) who can determine why you have not had a period for 3 months, along with your other symptoms. It is important to rule out other medical conditions (pregnancy is not the only reason you would not have a period).

Please let us know if you need help finding a doctor in your area.

June 19, 2011 - 1:42pm
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Anonymous (reply to southerngirl21)

First of all, girlie, you were WAY too young to be having sex in the first place. Take another test and consider getting an abortion or adopting it out. Believe it or not, teenage guys don't want to be dads.

June 19, 2011 - 1:15pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Telling her ages too young to be having sex is completely useless since time machines don't exist yet and not very helpful. Your other suggestions were though. For people saying abortion is killing a baby, its not. A zygote is not a baby. An embryo is not a baby. They are collections of cells with the POTENTIAL to turn into a baby.

June 19, 2011 - 8:21pm
(reply to Anonymous)

Abortion is would kill the baby.
Why punish the baby for something the parents did wrong?.

June 19, 2011 - 1:49pm
HERWriter Guide

Hi Anon!

Thanks for your post! The pull-out method is not a reliable form for many people, especially those who are not adept at this method yet. Some people do very well on it but many others do not.

The first thing you do is you have to take a pregnancy test. Then you will know where you stand. Otherwise all this worry and stress will wear you down. Please take a test straight away (read the instructions carefully) and let us know how it goes.


May 30, 2011 - 2:37pm
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