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I'm worried I may be pregnant. Please help me!

By October 1, 2010 - 8:52pm
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This might be a little long, but I'll be so appreciative if you take the time to read it! So me and my boyfriend have had dry sex a few times, and in these few times he would pull out his penis and sometimes rub against my vagina with it. However, i did have pants on, as well as underwear. But i was wet, and i thought i saw pre-cum on his penis but I'm not sure. But his penis didnt really rub against me for long, like maybe for 2-3 seconds then i stopped him. I didn't think anything of it at the time, but when I was thinking about it later, I got worried. I also have a irregular period so I can't tell if I'm late or not. I'm pretty sure I'm not late yet though. I've just been really stressed out lately and i know that that can cause a late period too. And this has happened maybe twice, but I didnt let him penetrate me in anyway. I've also been getting alot of clear vaginal fluids lately, I don't know if this means anything. Please help me! I'd appreciate it SO much!

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Hi MissGG

You are not pregnant. You cannot become pregnant through pants and underwear. Sperm has to enter your vagina and swim up the canal to fertilize an egg, and it won't happen through layers of clothing.

Now. You are clearly close to having sex. So decide now what method of birth control you want to use, and have it in place so that when you do decide to have sex, you are in control of not only your body and the situation, but also whether and when you become pregnant. Do not leave it to chance.

If you are uncertain as to what methods you want to consider, make an appointment at your nearest Planned Parenthood and they will go through all of the methods with you as well as giving you sex education so you can understand your body and how pregnancy really works. Please do not wait. Planned Parenthood bills on a sliding scale so you do not have to have money to get assistance, and you need some education.

Be prepared so you don't have to go through this kind of fear again. Good luck and thanks for writing.

October 2, 2010 - 7:26am
(reply to Cary Cook BSN RN)

Thank you for the help, I've just been so worried that somehow i would end up pregnant since i as wet and he might have a little pre-cum and that it somehow would get through my two layers of clothing. I guess I'm just paranoid, so once again thank you!

October 2, 2010 - 10:30am
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