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My boyfriend and I were making out, and he keeps trying to dry hump me. I keep moving away and so he rubs against other parts of me... like my leg or near my vagina, but not on my vagina. Does that count as dry sex/dry humping/outercourse?
Thanks
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Hello Anonymous,
Yes, this activity is outercourse, also referred to as dry humping or dry sex.
Maryann
August 26, 2013 - 5:04pmThis Comment
so, if I consider oral sex to be sex... does that mean I had sex with him?
August 27, 2013 - 12:04amThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
Yes, oral sex is sexual activity.
Let me point out that sexually transmitted diseases or STDs, including HIV, herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, HPV, and viral hepatitis can be passed on through oral sex. Be careful.
Maryann
August 27, 2013 - 4:21pmThis Comment
I guess I didn't phrase that right. I didn't have oral sex with him, because I consider that sex. I'm a virgin, but I wanted to make sure that his rubbing against my leg didn't mean I had sex with him. It wasn't something I initiated with him, and I told him to stop but after a while he would start in again. I guess I just want to make sure I didn't accidentally go too far with him... if that makes sense? :( Thanks, Maryann
August 27, 2013 - 5:53pmThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
Your boyfriend may be ready to go all the way. Are you?
The decision to be sexually active is yours. It is something you and your boyfriend need to talk about and be respectful of each other. If you are ready, then you need to choose and use birth control regularly and consistently.
Maryann
August 28, 2013 - 4:40pmThis Comment