I'm 24 and my boyfriend is 26, we've been together just over a year. I hate to admit it, but we bonded over a love of liquor. We had sober sex, but the sober times were at par with the drunk times. After a while, it seemed like he only wanted sex when he was drinking, or drunk. So about 5 months ago I drastically cut down on the amount of alcohol I drank and asked him to do the same. He had some trouble, but he did it. Since then we have sex maybe 3 times a month. It's getting frustrating because i know he still has a sex drive, he watches internet porn and masturbates regularly. When I bring up the topic he just shrugs it off, he says that he's "always the one to try to initiate it". I know that's a lie because I DO try to initiate sex. i try kissing him, rubbing him, and every time it ends in rejection. We've only been together for a year and, already, I'm in a sexless marriage! He tells me I'm beautiful all the time, we still laugh and have fun together, but is there anything I can do to make him want me without the aid of beer-googles?
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