I'm 19 years old and my partner is 22.
I am very attractive, AUS size 8 and get told I look alot like Tara Reed. So I know it's not my fault. We have a great relationship and he is very affectionate and loving, but when it comes to sex he only feels the need to do it with me every 10 days or more.
We have only been together 6 months and have no even done most sexual acts because he is not interested. He has erection problems where it's hard to stay up and at times won't get up at all. He stresses about this and I think avoids sex because he is embarrassed.
My partner has also been depressed since he was a child, he has a long history of drug abuse, insomnia and odd disorders such as pulling out all of his hair including eye brows and eye lashes. Although he does occasionally watch porn twice a week and masterbates every 3 days or so, I get upset about this because he knows how distressed I get that our sex life is lacking. He says he masterbates out of bordem, this does make sense also because he has not worked for over a year and is also very scared to leave the house at times. I know depression is a sex drive killer but are there ways I can help him or if not what should I do about my sexuality??
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