we have been together for 2 years now, it has been wonderful. during our "honeymoon" period it was great, he was like the men in the movies, he would lay me down gently, kiss me head to toe, it was amazing. a few months into the relationship it all changed. he started saying he was tired, or that he just ate and hes full or some other silly excuse to get out of it. I just dont understand. I know he is not cheating, he is very loyal and faithful to me, i couldnt ask for more in that department. we usually have sex about 2 to 3 times a week now if that. But it seems like it is a chore for him or that he is doing it to keep me quiet. Is there something wrong with me? I feel unattractive and unwanted by this, whats going on? Its been a year and a half of this and I have talked to him about it and his response is that its not all about sex, or he will defend how much he works. I tell him i understand, and share that i have a very physically full time job as well but I am never to tired for him. I explain to him that the reason why i want him so much is not just for the pfysical feeling that it is more for the mental feeling. When he is in me and we are one I feel so safe, so loved, I feel complete. His rebuttal is that i watch to many love movies and if im not happy with him i should find someone that makes me happy.he truly does make me happy, this is the only thing that confuses me. please help!!
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