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my boyfriend has never made me cm ?!

By Anonymous January 7, 2016 - 1:26pm
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Hi ,
So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now, we have not had sex because we are saving that , but we have fooled around many times . I have given him oral and he has done the same to me , as well as that he often fingers me. He always tries to make me cm but I have never done so , which puts me in pressure because I have to lie and say I did , also because afterwards I stay really in the mood and can't focus on anything. I have made him cm the every time and recently I am starting to think something is wrong with me?

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Hi and thank you for sharing your question with the EmpowHER community.

There is nothing wrong with you. Generally speaking, it is easier for men to become sexually stimulated and reach a climax, however, with some women it's different. Some women can climax, but there are many that have never had an orgasm.

Both physical and mental things can affect the outcome. One suggestion is for you and your partner need to spend more time during foreplay. Being relaxed and setting the mood may seem like small things but they can make a difference. A caring, understanding and patience partner who will take time with you will help.

It's something you can also discuss with your physician for possible recommendations.

I hope this helps.


January 7, 2016 - 2:51pm
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