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My Boyfriend no longer wants sex.. im worried :(

By September 4, 2012 - 12:06am
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My boyfriend and I are both 20 years old with a baby. He has suddenly not wanted sex at all and im starting to get worried. I asked if its to do with me and he says that its just not the same anymore since the baby. I have tried kegal excercises, weights and even gels but he doesnt want a barr of it :(. I have tried sexy lingerie, baths, showers, promting massages and even body paints but with no luck. Im confused because he will gladly accept oral :S or sometimes just wants to play..... Any suggestions of what i should do???

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Hi 3422607,

Welcome to EmpowHER. Sorry to hear this, but it's important to discuss with your boyfriend how you feel about this and maybe seek counseling to help out the relationship.  Sometimes depression, stress, hormonal imbalance, medications and many other conditions can cause a low sex drive.  



September 4, 2012 - 3:40am
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