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ask: My boyfriend wants sex but am still a virgin and he promises to marry me.is he not decieving me?each time he talks abt sex i wil tel him he shud wait but he promised he will neva hurt or leave me.wat shud i do?

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Uh yeah. Drop the guy. He sounds like a pretty heartless and immature guy. Dont let him talk you into anything that you're. It comfortable with. Believe me you'll find someone better who respects your body and your timing.

April 12, 2012 - 10:29pm
Danielle Serrano

Anonymous, 

It looks like your question got a little cut off. Your whole question reads, "My boyfriend wants sex but am still a virgin and he promises to marry me.is he not decieving me?each time he talks abt sex i wil tel him he shud wait but he promised he will neva hurt or leave me.wat shud i do?"

If you are not comfortable with having sex with your boyfriend yet, there is no reason you should do it. Sex should not feel forced, but rather like a natural progression that BOTH of you are comfortable with.

Your boyfriend should not be promising things just so you'll sleep with him-- that is not right. If he wants to get married, that's great, but that shouldn't change anything as far as your sex life goes.

I cannot tell you if he is deceiving you, but if you don't trust him then this may not be the relationship for you. I feel that one of the most important things in a relationship is trust and that you cannot have love, unless you have trust.

The bottom line is that your boyfriend needs to respect your feelings.

I hope this helps.

Best,

Danielle. 

April 3, 2012 - 6:21am
Abbey

hoe do i respond to sex (intercourse) if i want my guy to last long the way i want it

April 3, 2012 - 2:31am
Danielle Serrano (reply to Abbey)

Abbey,

It looks like you wanted to ask a question, but posted as a comment on someone else's question. If you'd like to ask a question, please create a different ask, so that we can further help and respond to just you.

Thanks,

Danielle. 

April 3, 2012 - 6:23am
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