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My gf has a really high sex drive, to the point where she cries and arguees with me when she dosent get it. What can I do?

By Anonymous September 11, 2012 - 2:32pm
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She's 22 Im 29 and every chance she gets she tries to get me aroused but she talks about it so much that it has become dry to me. Im no longer turned on by it because she begs so much it seems forced. I dont know if its me or her. I try to go on walks with her talk about different things and she always brings the conversation back to sex. And when I ask her about it she either cries or gets really mad to the point she leaves for a few days. I dont know what to do. I was reading some books about it and 1 book said it could come from being molested. She was molested as a kid but I think its deeper then that.

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Hello Anonymous,

You deserve credit for trying to cope with your girlfriend's high sex demands. She may be reacting to her past traumatic experience of being molested. It is hard to confirm that.

This sounds like a situation that would benefit from the intervention of a well-trained psychologist. Seek the help of
a person who specializes in sexual issues. Your doctor may be able to make a referral for you.


September 11, 2012 - 4:28pm
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