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By Anonymous January 28, 2015 - 1:50am
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My boyfriend has had sex with two other girls before me i feel like I'm the third wheel and I'm mad and would you be mad n today he finger me so hard that he straight out my hole will it stay stretched out or will it get back tight

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Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER.

Though you may feel sore, no permanent damage was done by fingering. It may feel as if your vaginal opening was stretched but it was not and you should feel better if you rest and abstain from further sexual activity.

How you feel about your boyfriend's previous sexual history is something you need to deal with. If these girls were in his life before he met you, well, you cannot change what has happened.
It is a different story if he is sexually active with other girls while in a relationship with you.


January 28, 2015 - 9:37am
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