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ask: my wife wants me to masturbate because she does not want to have sex but she does not want me to sleep with another woman what should i do?

By Anonymous

because i think, what she won't do another woman will, so please help.

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Anonymous

She must be a lesbian.

December 2, 2012 - 4:39am
paulsmith1988

Let him know about sex and masturbation and let him know about the i can give you more pleasure then it and sex can help you in many ways if it got the point then it will be a good thing for you.

November 6, 2012 - 2:32am
azngirl777

Maybe you need to pursue her? Do u still put effort into being romantic?

November 5, 2012 - 7:20pm
Maryann Gromisch RN Guide

Hello Anonymous,

The bigger problem is why doesn't your wife want to have sex and what is it that you want her to do?

If the two of you cannot discuss this and come to a better solution than you masturbating, I strongly suggest getting intervention with an impartial third party. That can be a religious leader, whom you feel comfortable talking to, your physician or a trained marriage counselor.

Maryann

October 23, 2012 - 4:20pm
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