Hi there! I have a few questions in my mind that have taken away my sleep, happiness, and peace, hopefull you can help me clear my thoughts.
I had unprotected sex sometime in early November 2016 and then I Started bleeding/period I think it was around mid November almost. My periods normally last 5-6 days. The flow is normally heavy, red, and with clots and I'm quiet irregular in the sense that my periods don't start on a certain date, they just come. However though the bleeding I had in November was opposite of my regular period. It only lasted for two days and it was very light flow and because it was few days after sex I'm assuming it was implantation bleeding!
After that I had period in dec which seemed normal lasting 5 days, but it was without clots and again the blood flow was quiet light and sometimes the color would be light pink then shift to dark brow to black! Then two weeks after my period ended I took a hpt and it was negative. The test was done after a month of possible conception. After waiting for another week I took one more hpt and negative again
After that I had a January period and a February period and both seemed to be normal. I also got a Transadominal pelvic Ultrasound at 9 weeks, but didn't tell the lady performing the ultrasound that I could be pregnant! The results came back normal and nothing was wrong with me and no one mentioned pregnancy so I was happy. Also a week before I had gotten my ultrasound done I had gone to a clinic and a nurse performed a urine pregnancy test (8weeks) and it was negative.
All my periods after what might what been a possible implantation bleeding in November, 4 negative hpts, and normal transabdominal/ pelvic ultrasound result most likely mean that I'm not pregnant, but I read stories on internet where women deliver babies without ever knowing they were pregnant, or their hpt doesn't show a positive throughout pregnancy or by the time it does it's too late to do anything about it. And stories about due to large fibroid or too much abdominal bloating pregnant women keep getting negative hpt results. Also I'm afraid that because I did not tell the lady performing I had been sexually active and that there i a chance I could be pregnant, she could have missed to check properly. I'm afraid I could be pregnant despite all my periods and negative hpts!
Sorry for the details and such long paragraphs but I had to let it out and any insight from you on this will be HIGHLY APPRICIATED!
Thank you so much!!