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By Anonymous June 21, 2011 - 10:56am
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Me and my boyfriend were dating for about a year. We had a very sexual relationship, but never had sex. He broke up with me in may and we started talking about a month ago. He doesn't want to date me because we had broken up and had gotten back together about 6 times, but he has been talking to me about wanting to have sex with me and doing things with me again, without dating me. I still care for him but what am i suppose to do if I prefer to be in a relationship with him yet want to do those things.. Im scared.

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Hi Anonymous,
How old are you? If you stop and look at what is going on, it is very clear that your ex-boyfriend wants you for only one thing- sex. You have said that he doesn't want to date you. It sounds to me, that he is using you. You must have more respect for yourself. You should not feel pressured by him or any one else to have sex. Waiting for the right person, someone who you love and who loves you, will make your first sexual experience a positive and fulfilling experience. Please give this serious consideration before doing something that you will later regret. Can you talk to your mother, older sister, teacher or church leader who can guide you in this matter if you do not agree with my advice?

June 21, 2011 - 4:40pm
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