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Opinions about safe sex-fingering Question...Thanks!

By Anonymous August 28, 2014 - 9:02am
 
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So my fiancee and I do not want to have sex until we are married (religious preference)
so we usually just engage manually (he fingers me, then I give him a handjob, he ejaculates on my stomach, we wipe it off with a towel and that's that.)

I am not on BC because this does not pose a pregnancy risk.
One of my friends has been telling me this actually may.
Am I crazy? Should I get on BC if this is all we do? (I am waiting to go on BCP because I don't want to mess with my body until I have to- we're not getting married for another year).

Thanks! Leanna

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Hello Leanna,

Thank you for seeking advice on how to be safe and reduce the risk of pregnancy.

I recommend that your fiancee not ejaculate on your body. You have control. Move his penis away from you.

There is a very slight chance that sperm, from semen ejaculated near your outer genitalia, can enter your vagina. The risk for pregnancy increases if you are ovulating. This might be what your friend is referring to.

Hope this helps.

Regards,
Maryann

August 28, 2014 - 9:25am
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