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By May 21, 2012 - 12:52pm
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Hi there,

My friend told me to post on here because she said you could give me some information. :)

I'm the friend based off of this post:

I read the link she told me to and I was wondering if rubbing naked with the chase of pre-cum is possible to get me pregnant? He didn't ejaculate when we did it.

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Hi again.

We cannot give a definitive answer on this. Again, you're right, the links will help you a lot so you need to take the time to read them. As you said, the answers are probably all in there.

Further questions should be directed to your health care provider as we have helped you as best we can. Good luck and take care,


May 24, 2012 - 9:24am
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There are no pat answers, you're right!

You didn't have sex so I think you are worrying over it a little too much but I do think you need to stop all sexual activity until you know what's going on. I gave your "friend" on the other thread the links you need to educate yourself. This is why we have these links as we have far too many Am I Pregnant questions to answer them all in full- hence why we created these pages. This is why you need to spend a lot of time actually reading them (all of them). http://www.empowher.com/sexual-health-101

In general, you can find out if you are pregnant 14 days after the last time you had sex. Not all women have implantation bleeding. Again, all the links I have given you/the other poster will answer these for you. Thank you for reading these!

If you used a condom, you would not have any of these fears. Using a condom will avoid all these worries. Also, consider taking a sex ed class, this will also help you.


May 23, 2012 - 12:16pm
(reply to Susan Cody)

Thanks for the link, I shall read it when I get a chance. :) One LAST thing before I read it (It may even be in there!) He finally got my cherry to pop without a condom (we plan on using them from now on, we talked about it -- We we will have no worries) He didn't cum inside the worst -- Maybe pre-cum. He hadn't ejaculated since the day before and had showered and urinated alot thru-out the day. Should we be worried or is everything in the clear for now?

May 24, 2012 - 1:46am

Hm, yes it does sort of. I wish there was a pat answer on these sort of things. I've seen and heard so many things about this subject.

How soon can you actually know if you are pregnant? Is it within a few weeks after sex? Or not till a missed period? I also read you will know if you are pregnant because you will bleed some from implantation.

May 23, 2012 - 9:46am

Hello OoSpringisEternaloO,

Yes, there is a chance of conception or getting pregnant with genital to genital contact.

According to Go Ask Alice!, the Columbia University Health website,
"It is possible to become pregnant from a man's pre-ejaculate fluid (pre-cum) under certain circumstances, though the chances are quite low. Pre-cum itself does not contain sperm, however sperm left behind from a previous ejaculation might be an eager stow-away on the pre-ejaculate cargo ship.
After ejaculation, whether by masturbation or sex with a partner, sperm may be left over in the urethra, the tube that semen travels through. Urinating between ejaculations flushes the urethra of these leftover sperm and clears the way for pre-cum. If sperm remain in the urethra from a previous ejaculation, they may be released with pre-cum. "

I hope this answers your question.


May 21, 2012 - 3:58pm
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